Sunday, February 28, 2010

Digging Out!



Photo shows Roy digging himself out of the snow in front of his home in Montgomery Village, MD, USA. This was after the great freeze, the heaviest snowstorm seen in the area in nearly 100 years.

On this day, I was in Sri Lanka, enjoying a balmy 30 degrees! Snow nowhere in sight!

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

S.K.

In the exquisite HBO series "Six Feet Under" (which is about a family that runs a funeral service), each episode begins with a death. In one, a young businessman dies suddenly and the widow is asked by the undertakers what type of car her husband drove. Upon being told it was an expensive BMW, the undertakers suggest that her late husband be buried in an elaborate $6,000 casket, befitting her late husband's affluence. Going by that reasoning, I would probably be buried in a cardboard box because the car I drive is probably the cheapest model being sold in Hong Kong, a 1998 Mazda 323.




I bought it second-hand on moving to Sai Kung because the previous car I owned, a Honda Civic, didn't have air bags and the 50km round trip commute to the Chinese University in rainy weather could be dangerous. The Mazda now has over 115,000kms, and, considering the Jags, Mercs, Lexuses, and BMWs of my neighbors in Clover Lodge (no Rolls Royce in sight yet!), its a blot on the landscape. But, the Mazda has been a reliable friend, not stranding me even once over the past 10 years I've owned it. To me, a car is not a prized possession (it's just a metal box on wheels that gets me from one place to another), so the car is full of scratches and dents. I have a ready can of midnight blue spray paint, and that's how the scratches are covered up. Not being a torturer of domestic helpers, I didn't ask mine to wash the car everyday, only once a month or so (and, currently, I don't have a domestic helper, anyway).

And the man who has kept the Mazda in top running condition is S.K., who is the most reliable mechanic I've met, and, being dependant on my car, is easily one of the best things that happened to me the in Hong Kong. Before coming to Hong Kong, I lived in the States where a visit to a mechanic was seen with dread, a guarantee of another rip-off. I didn't expect anything better in Hong Kong, so S.K. came as a wonderful surprise.

I don't take the car to S.K. He comes to me. On the rare occasion when a repair is needed (such as when I smash-up a parking light!), I call him up. Otherwise, he reminds me when the MOT is due, picks up the car, does the routine upkeep (new spark plugs, breaks, fan belts, tires, engine and break oil replacement, etc), does the MOT, and returns the car to my home. Old parts that were replaced are brought for my inspection (although I barely spare a glance). S.K. keeps meticulous records of the car and reminds me when a new battery or timing belt is needed. Over the years, I have recommended his services to nearly twenty people and have heard nothing but praise for him.

S.K. goes out of the way to help his clients. He showed one, who was new to Hong Kong, how to drive from Sai Kung to Pokfulam. When this friend's car broke down recently, S.K. summoned a tow truck and kept calling her (it was evening and she was standing beside a busy road) till the tow truck turned-up.

So, this is my tribute to S.K. Soon, with retirement coming, I won't be needing a car in Hong Kong. But, wherever I'll be driving, I'll recall S.K's efficiency, his honesty, and his kindness. Thanks, S.K.



S.K.

Monday, January 18, 2010

The New York Times recommends Sri Lanka as the No. 1 place to visit in 2010


View of Kandy Lake with the Temple of the Tooth in the background

The 31 Places to Go in 2010

1. Sri LankaFor a quarter century, Sri Lanka seems to have been plagued by misfortune, including a brutal civil war between the Sinhalese-dominated government and a separatist Tamil group. But the conflict finally ended last May, ushering in a more peaceful era for this teardrop-shaped island off India’s coast, rich in natural beauty and cultural splendors.

The island, with a population of just 20 million, feels like one big tropical zoo: elephants roam freely, water buffaloes idle in paddy fields and monkeys swing from trees. And then there’s the pristine coastline. The miles of sugary white sand flanked by bamboo groves that were off-limits to most visitors until recently are a happy, if unintended byproduct of the war.
Among the most scenic, if difficult stretches to reach, is Nilaveli Beach in the Tamil north. While a few military checkpoints remain, vacationers can lounge on poolside hammocks under palm trees or snorkel in its crystal-clear waters. Or they can order cocktails at the Nilaveli Beach Hotel (www.tangerinehotels.com/nilavelibeach), a collection of recently renovated bungalows with private terraces.

An international airport in Matara, on the island’s southern shore, is under construction, which will make the gorgeous beaches near the seaside village of Galle easier to get to. Decimated by the tsunami in 2004, the surrounding coastline is now teeming with stylish guesthouses and boutique hotels.

Unawatuna, a crescent-shaped beach a few miles south of Galle, may be furthest along. Higher-end hotels there include Thambapanni Retreat (http://www.thambapanni.biz/), which features four-poster beds, yoga and an ayurvedic spa. The Sun House (http://www.thesunhouse.com/), in Galle, looks like a place where the Queen of England might stay, with its mango courtyard and colonial décor. One stylish place tucked within Galle’s city walls is the Galle Fort Hotel (http://www.galleforthotel.com/), a refurbished gem merchant’s house run by a couple of Aussies. — Lionel Beehner

Saturday, January 9, 2010

A wedding in the family

On December 30, our son Roy married Shannon Schwait in Gainesville, Florida. They had met in Tallahassee, FL, three years ago when Roy worked at Florida State University. They both live in Maryland now.

Despite the prevailing cold weather, Dec. 30 turned out to be a perfect day for the outdoor ceremony, which was arranged by Carl and Anna Schwait, the bride's parents.
Carl and Anna escorting Shannon to the ceremony.



Roy being escorted to the ceremony by his parents


The couple with their best men and the brides' maids. Roy's cousin Damian is on the extreme left. Next to Shannon is her sister Amanda.

Photos of the happy couple:







Fawzia tying a gold necklace on the bride, in keeping with Sri Lankan tradition